Being a Girl in Business
One of the few issues I didn't anticipate when I started my website was having to deal with people who didn't trust me because I was a young woman. I could understand the young bit (It’s completely fair to ask about someone’s level of experience), but the woman part? Didn’t see that one coming. I don't intend to launch into a speech about men vs. women, but in the early stages of building my website I encountered a type of gender-based ignorance that I honestly thought went out of style years ago. After talking to other young women who own businesses I found that this was an issue for many of us so I thought it would be good to share some of my insight (however limited) into how best to deal with the situation. (For those of you who don’t own a business and aren’t a woman, you might still get a kick out of some of the stories)
Part One:
After my site was mentioned in a major newspaper I started hearing from larger companies looking to advertise on the site. I had previously only dealt with smaller companies so adjusting to a new way of business was a bit of a change for me. Along with ad requests came public relations agencies and agents looking to chat with me about possible projects. The excitement of it all was dampened by the fact that people seemed appalled that they were actually speaking with me directly. Despite the fact that press clips made it clear I was running the site, people seemed shocked that they couldn’t go past me and talk to an ad sales manager, a rep or an agent. Here’s a sampling of some of the fun things I’ve heard over the past two years:
“You’ve got to be kidding if you want me to believe that a 23 year old girl runs this site.”
“Are you sure you know how to run the finance end of this? Don’t you have an ad guy I could talk to? It’s ok if you don’t know numbers, you could just stick to design…I can suggest a great guy to help you with the hard part.”
“Come on, who really runs the site? It’s fun to have a cute girl on the cover but I’m sure you’ve got some ad guys I can talk to, right?”
“It can be really tough to represent yourself, you know. Trying to represent yourself as a young girl..I mean woman…I mean, people might not take you too seriously.”
I heard most of these comments (and many more) over the phone and what struck me was the way that they seemed to really think it was funny that I thought I could run things on my own. But instead of focusing on the muck I thought I’d try to share how I’ve dealt with these situations. Thankfully as the site as come into its own people seem to take me a bit more seriously but here are some tips I’ve gleaned from my own experience and others running their own businesses:
1. Never play into the negativity: it’s a no-brainer but if you don’t take the bait you can’t get reeled into an argument. Try to ignore comments like the ones above and stay on course. You can always vent to your friends later.
2. Be ready with the facts (and stick to them): Numbers speak for themselves so whether you’re dealing with advertising, product sales or agents have your business’ stats on hand. I’ve found the best way to deal with a pushy or rude client or business person is to direct them to your stats page (or a well-made one sheet) for more information.
3. Have a support group: the numbers of young women running their own businesses continues to grow and with the advent of the internet, blogs and online forums for business owners it’s easier than ever to find someone to talk to. I attend a bi-monthly business women’s meeting where I can check in with other young women running design-based businesses. Find someone who does what you do and you’ll always have someone to bounce ideas off of and check in with when something goes wrong.
4. Don’t be afraid to stay small: I know people who’ve created fake ad sales managers and fake press agents to look more impressive to clients. In the end they always get caught so don’t be afraid to admit that you’re running a small (or even one-person) business. The proof is in the pudding and if you’re successful people will come around.












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We closed on our “Series B” financing in April of this year. Thinking back, I can’t believe how fast and smooth it all went. It was exciting to see groups actually competing for the chance to invest in our company. We had sure come a long way from the days of going “door to door,” looking for investors with the slightest interest in our dream.